The first time you look back and see your husband, don’t be surprised if he’s jerking off.
It is shocking, and it can make you a little angry to see him so weak, so shameless, but you have to remember that this is a confusing time for him. You need to be understanding, and encourage him to do whatever makes him comfortable.
After all, he is as much a slave to his desires as you are to yours.
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